Scruff provides a separate field to describe one’s “sex preferences”— I think top, bottom, versatile, oral, fetish, and “no sex” are all options — and you can choose more than one. But, and this is largely my point in the story, there does not seem to a widespread consensus among Scruff users on the purpose or meaning of some of the words in these fields. Which, honestly, shouldn’t really surprise us very much…. :-) We gays are nothing if not creative! So, there seems to be some element of ‘fail’ on the part of Scruff and some element of ‘user error’ as well. Lol!

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